when someone abandons you，it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn’t love you.
小生不才，仅以文字纪妄念。
小生不才，妄博姑娘青睐，然小生一无潘安貌，二无万贯财，三无李白学，独以为倾慕之意止乎望眼，掩乎蹉跎，匿乎心口，实则寤寐思服，辗转反侧。
<--a fall into a pit, a gain in your wit